Sex is more than a list of sexual acts—it includes closeness, desire, imaginative ideas and what our bodies say to each other in the dark.
With this in mind, your man wanting to have sex this way isn’t just a coincidence. It’s a clue to his attraction, what he hopes to gain from you and how he sees things between the two of you.
There’s a reason doggy style is one of the top-picked sex positions. It’s powerful, it’s raw and it results in a burst of energy that is hard to get from other forms of sex.
For most men, looking at their partner during sex is just as important as what comes from it. Every time your lover enters you, their attention is drawn to your back, your movements with each thrust and their grip on you.
There is also more to notice than just what you see.
When dominance and control come into play, it is often called from behind. It gives him the freedom to guide the movement, set the pace and freely engage in his raw sexual behaviors.
It’s animalistic. It’s lust-driven. For many, it means forgetting everything else and getting caught up in their pleasure.
On top of that, there’s the physical aspect. The tightness. The depth. The angle. It feels different right into your body. It gives men a more intense experience than usual.
When done the right way for women, it can lead to stimulation of the G-spot and powerful pleasure. The most important things are where you place your dog, how comfortable your dog is and how much you trust your dog.
How do we feel about love?
Sometimes, the solution isn’t about getting completely detached. It may be how he feels closest to you.
Even though he grips your hips, draws you closer and thrusts inside you, it feels very emotional on the inside.
For certain couples, in this position, they feel a new form of closeness, with little or no words involved.
However, everything comes down to communicating effectively. If you like what you do, make sure to continue. If you aren’t interested, let them know. Don’t think great sex ends with your fantasies; it’s much better if you both experiment and discover new pleasures together.
So if he wants to try the reverse, remember it’s also about more than your body. How your body affects him is what matters.
How you make him comfortable showing his true emotions. Perhaps he wishes that you’re feeling the same intense affection.